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| Well...I have done it...I have a myspace.com site now. I will still post things here...more generic. I will keep my more personal blog posts at my myspace site. If you want to reach me over there you can email me at my contact address! I wont post a link here, cause there are some I dont want over there that read this blog :P
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| We went this morning. Just ds and I (dd went to her friends). We got there, ds went in told them alot of things. Way more than he had told me.They said they didnt think there was any sexual that happend. (verbal or physical) PTL!! They then talked to ds about strangers and good/bad touch. I appreciated that. We talk to our kids about that, but hearing it from an authority figure is a bit different. They were very good with him. He didnt get upset, he did just wonderfully, sitting in a little chair holding his daddys firemans tool 
I talked to the investigator after, while ds played with some toys, and they have a person whom they think (or pretty much know) it is. I will get a full report as soon as they finish dotting their i's and crossing their t's. This man is caught. With the help of the other boy and my ds, a sick, sick man will be off the street, and not be able to hurt anyone else.
We have new rules in place, and dd and ds are abiding by them very well (no being in the front yard w/o mom or dad and keeping the gate pad locked)
Dh suggested we go to a hotel waterpark this weekend to de-stress, I am all for that....I think we all need that 
So after we got look at a horse tomorrow we will be off! I hope I will e able to handle catching up on posts here when i get back Monday!!
Thanks to all of you, your prayers were felt.  | | |
| I got a phone call today from a detective. Evidently, there was another incident that same night, just south of where I live, it was an older boy that was approached, given quarters and asked to do some sex acts. The desciption of the man and car match what ds described. I called ds to ask him if the man said anything else, and he was quiet, and asked why? I think there is more to the story and it is breaking my heart  . I cannot stop crying.  I feel like such a BAD mother for letting this happen to ds. I am not a mom who lets their kids run...I was outside with them that night, I was away from him for 3 minutes.....I keep thinking what if he were taken...what if....what if....
There will be a HUGE talk whan ds comes home from grandmas, and alot of new rules. The kids will not be happy with me, but I would rather they be mad at me then lose them to some freak.
I am getting ds and dd tomorrow, I am so torn up. I need to hold them.
Thanks for listening
**UPDATE**
I got a call from the detective again today. He said they have a very good chance they know who this is. He asked if ds could come and do an interview. I said yes, but that his identity be keep private because of his age. He said no problem.
So...ds will be interviewed tomorrow morning at 9 am. If you feel compelled please say a little prayer for my little guy, that he doesnt get frightened, or upset.
all for your support and prayers, it really means alot to me in such a difficult time in our lives. | | |
| On wednesday we all were in the pool. We got out around 8pm, I was picking up the toys and putting the cover on (in the backyard) Ds went through the gate on his bike, riding back and forth from the front to the back. He came through again, and said "Mommy, a man stopped, , told me to come here and gave me 4 quarters and said to go get ice cream). I about passed out. I asked for ds to give me the money, and we went inside. I called the police to make a report (just to have something on file). I talked to ds, and told him I would be disposing of the 4 quarters, but because he came and told me right away, I would buy him an ice cream (soooooo glad he told me) I went on to talk about strangers, (like we have done in the past). I do not know how much sank in, he is 5. ( keep in mind this was in front of our house)
The officer arrived, ds gave him a description of the car and man.
Then the police officer very gently (I was impressed) talked to ds about taking anything from strangers. I think alot sank in what the officer told ds. I live in a small town (800), and we are smooshed in the middle of 2 major highways. I am so afraid, because how easy would it be to snatch a child and be on the highways in minutes....
Ughhhhh, I am praying that this wont happen again.
Last year I let dd walk to the neighbors house to sell Girl Scout cookies, a van pulled over and wanted to buy some. (again in front of our house) She RAN home screaming. The van did follow her into our driveway and really want to buy cookies, but and the mom in the van and I made such a big deal of how she did such a great job, and so smart for doing the right thing. Now if I can get ds to follow that 
Thanks for listening!! I am still very tramatized from this ordeal. | | |
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